Has your submission increased or decreased over
time? Have you ever had to renegotiate your submission due to a change in your
feelings or circumstance?
My submission has continually grown over the last 10 years.
At first I didn't even realize that is what was happening. I just wanted to
follow Him. About five years ago we started discussing some of our lifestyle
changes. It was very slow at first and I did fight a lot of little things that
now are just second nature. About two years ago we started talking about a full
24/7 power exchange. It was all very exciting and we jumped in with both feet.
It was a disaster.
After struggling for a little while we decided to take a
step back and see what went wrong. We are very happy with that decision. We are
moving a lot slower and I find it easy to hand over things to Him now. He
started out with just a few little things and we are building on them. I know
He has grand plans for our future and my submission but we are taking it slow.
We don’t want to have to back up and do it again.
I think that really smart. It's not a race to any so called finish line...that beauty of it. You have your whole lives together to build the dynamic that's perfect for you as a couple.
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