Thursday, August 28, 2014

Day Twenty Eight

Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from that?

Wow there is a lot in this question. I think I will break it down a little bit.

Has your submission every let you down?
No. I only submit to my Master and I trust Him completely with everything in my life. His choices are usually better than my own. I cannot see it letting me down because He doesn't let me down.

Have you ever been criticized for your submission?
Yes, but not in a direct way. I have had family and friends make comments about how “weak” a woman would have to be to be submissive to her husband. Then EVERYONE read 50 Shades and the conversations never ended. I heard everything from M/s is abuse to “that lifestyle has to be made-up”. It doesn't really bother me anymore because I know how great my life is.

Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from that?

Yes I make mistakes. Everyone does. Thankfully I have a great Master and we work through everything together. 

2 comments:

  1. Hey sweetie! I've been down with strep, but finally back (again:P), and getting caught up on your blog. :)

    This was so well wrote. I think we all have heard similar, but you have such a great attitude about it. Knowing how great your life is -knowing you're happy.. that is all that counts. :)

    Missed reading your blog while I was gone! xx

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    1. I have missed you too! I may not comment (I am shy like that) but I always read your posts. I am sorry you were sick and I really hope you are feeling better. Strep sucks. We usually pass it around the family about once a year.

      How I look at the world - and other's opinions of me- has really changed in the last couple of years. I am so happy in our life that it would take a lot to make me doubt our choices.

      I can not wait to read more of your posts.

      *Hugs*
      Pet

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