Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?
I have thought about being a Dominate several times and it always makes me giggle. I am not a Dominate and I really never want to. I cannot even pretend for a play session. I feel that it goes against everything I have worked to be. He has suggested several things in the past that would put me “in charge” and I cannot do it. When I do not feel him guiding me I start to over think things and panic.