Yes, He uses spanking as a last resort punishment. He likes to use other means to correct me since I find spanking erotic and a huge turn on. A light little tap on my ass does nothing to deter unwanted behaviors. A spanking for us has to get past the fun part and into the “Oh Crap…That Hurts…Please Stop…I Promise I Will Be Good” phase.
I am thankful that He only uses it as a last result and that He feels my ass is the only appropriate place for that kind of punishment. He does not hit me anywhere else for discipline and He never disciplines me when He is angry. It usually starts with a “Go to your corner” where I can stay there for a long time. Once He is calm, he comes in and tells me why He is angry and how I am going to avoid this issue in the future. I then bend over and “grab my ankles” or bend over the bed. He likes for me to count the swats and I am not allowed to put on a show. He always finishes with hugs, cuddles, and talking.
Overall I am a really good girl and I have only had a couple of punishment spankings. It can be hard for me to take but I know it is always for my own good.
So smart that He uses these methods, especially if angry part. Sir does the same thing if He is angry, has me sit in time out or the corner 'till He calms down and administers the rest of the punishment once calm. :)
ReplyDeletePunishments should go to that, holy crap ouch phase I've learned. Otherwise it stays sexy and so not effective. lol.
Wonderful post, as always hon! :) xx
Your always so sweet!
DeleteI agree. If they were not painful past the sexy part I don't think it would change my behaviors. It might actually increase the unwanted things just so I could have a sexy spanking.
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Welcome Little! Thank you for commenting. I look forward to getting to know you.
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So much alike scary .. Ok not scary :) I always love the insight of your life ❤️
ReplyDeleteNo...No...We are very different....Ok. I can not type that with a straight face. I am a little different though. I have received punishment spankings and you haven't. You are such a good submissive!
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