Yes, He uses spanking as a last resort punishment. He likes to use other means to correct me since I find spanking erotic and a huge turn on. A light little tap on my ass does nothing to deter unwanted behaviors. A spanking for us has to get past the fun part and into the “Oh Crap…That Hurts…Please Stop…I Promise I Will Be Good” phase.
I am thankful that He only uses it as a last result and that He feels my ass is the only appropriate place for that kind of punishment. He does not hit me anywhere else for discipline and He never disciplines me when He is angry. It usually starts with a “Go to your corner” where I can stay there for a long time. Once He is calm, he comes in and tells me why He is angry and how I am going to avoid this issue in the future. I then bend over and “grab my ankles” or bend over the bed. He likes for me to count the swats and I am not allowed to put on a show. He always finishes with hugs, cuddles, and talking.
Overall I am a really good girl and I have only had a couple of punishment spankings. It can be hard for me to take but I know it is always for my own good.