Friday, September 5, 2014

Questions for Him #2

What does D/s or M/s mean to you? How do you define your relationship?
The Dom/sub or Master/slave role in our life is something very special to me. I am a Dom. I am a Master. I am a Sir. I have a sub/slave/pet. She is mine. It is my job to provide for her and give her a place to feel safe. A place in order for her to be able to serve all of my needs as they come up. These may be sexual needs, or a clean house, or to ensure that I know where she is at all times. It is my job to provide for my little pet. I enjoy the responsibility that comes with it. I want to take care of her and pamper her like a high quality pet. You wouldn't treat this thing of beauty, this property, like trash. I make sure that her grooming standards are to my satisfaction. Everything from her nails, hair, clothes, looks, under wear - all of it - It is all mine to control and rule. I can choose to do this with care and love or I can choose to do this with pain and discipline. 

I do not abuse my little pet. What I do is not spousal abuse. It is a
correctional tool. I am making her into what she wants to be. No matter what her life growing up was, this is who she is now. This is our life 24/7. This is a very 50's household that we have. I am the man of the house. I make the rules and she follows them. I earn the money and I choose how we spend it. I pick what she eats, what she wears, how to use her body to my satisfaction.  

I have never been happier than I am in this role. It has helped with my
self-confidence. I am more in control of my life. I have PTSD and have
suffered mentally due to the things I have seen and done in war. This brings me back to a good place. A centered area that no therapists could have given me. 

At some point we may/will add more than we already have, but our roles are clearly defined. I am her Master. She is my pet. 

4 comments:

  1. "I do not abuse my little pet. What I do is not spousal abuse. It is a
    correctional tool. I am making her into what she wants to be. No matter what her life growing up was, this is who she is now. This is our life 24/7. This is a very 50's household that we have. I am the man of the house. I make the rules and she follows them. I earn the money and I choose how we spend it. I pick what she eats, what she wears, how to use her body to my satisfaction."

    Absolutely love this paragraph! So well said, and wish some people out there that are not in the life would understand that this is how it is for a lot of us, Dom or sub.

    Am really enjoying these so far. Great questions so far hon, and wonderful answers from Him! :)

    xx

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    1. Thank you. I love to see His answers too!

      And I would love for people to understand our relationship and to not judge us harshly. But we all know that will not happen in the near future.

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  2. As always love it ...I love you two I'm so thankful we are all friends we are so much alike. It's like reading my own words ❤️

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    1. We are so lucky to have y'all as friends!

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