What does D/s or M/s mean to you? How do you define your relationship?
The Dom/sub or Master/slave role in our life is something very special to me. I am a Dom. I am a Master. I am a Sir. I have a sub/slave/pet. She is mine. It is my job to provide for her and give her a place to feel safe. A place in order for her to be able to serve all of my needs as they come up. These may be sexual needs, or a clean house, or to ensure that I know where she is at all times. It is my job to provide for my little pet. I enjoy the responsibility that comes with it. I want to take care of her and pamper her like a high quality pet. You wouldn't treat this thing of beauty, this property, like trash. I make sure that her grooming standards are to my satisfaction. Everything from her nails, hair, clothes, looks, under wear - all of it - It is all mine to control and rule. I can choose to do this with care and love or I can choose to do this with pain and discipline.
I do not abuse my little pet. What I do is not spousal abuse. It is a correctional tool. I am making her into what she wants to be. No matter what her life growing up was, this is who she is now. This is our life 24/7. This is a very 50's household that we have. I am the man of the house. I make the rules and she follows them. I earn the money and I choose how we spend it. I pick what she eats, what she wears, how to use her body to my satisfaction.
I have never been happier than I am in this role. It has helped with my self-confidence. I am more in control of my life. I have PTSD and have suffered mentally due to the things I have seen and done in war. This brings me back to a good place. A centered area that no therapists could have given me. At some point we may/will add more than we already have, but our roles are clearly defined. I am her Master. She is my pet.