Monday, September 8, 2014

Fun With Lists

Brat came up with several kinky lists that are just amazing. She dared other bloggers to do it too. You can find her lists here. I think there are several things missing from the lists but it is definitely a great start.

I put smiley faces on the things I have done and a few little notes here and there.

 1. Kiss a girl   J
2. Have anal  J
3. Have a threesome J
4. Engage in group sex
5. Have phone sex  J - I actually paid for part of my college by doing phone sex!
6. Masturbate J
7. Use a vibrator J
8. Use a sex toy on someone else J
9. Be tied up J
10. Tie someone up
11. Have sex in a public space J
12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live porn does not count)
13. Sex in a car  J
14. Sex at a drive-in
15. Mile-high club
16. Sex with a stranger
17. One-night standJ
18. Married sex  J
19. Sex on a boat
20. Sex in a body of water J
21. Light spanking J And Hard Spankings. lol
22. Read erotica J
23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game
24. Sex in the shower J
25. Sex standing up against a wall J
26. Sex with no kissing J
27. Sex in the pitch black J
28. Sex in the broad daylight J
29. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin J
30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness J
31. Watch porn together J
32. Watch porn alone
33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms
34. Sex on the beach
35. Blindfolds J
36. Using ice sexually J
37. Sexual role play
38. Whipped cream – I really don’t do food and sex – it is just yucky! lol
39. La Perla lingerie sex
40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex J - I am going to go with a yes since we do have costumes. And tails. And ears. And all kinds of fun things.
41. Sex with someone much older J
42. Sex with someone younger (legal!) J
43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner
44. A quickie in a skirt
45. A longie in the rain J
46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you
47. Feather ticklers J
48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else J
49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone
50. Silent sex in a full house J
51. Sending naked photos to each another J
52. Talking really dirty J
53. Sex while someone is watching
54. Teasing your partner to the point of orgasm, over and over
55. Really loud sex J
56. Sex in a favorite position J
57. Sex in a new position J
58. Orgasming at the same time J
59. Sex with deep emotion and love J
60. Spending all day naked
61. Not sleeping all night J
62. Sex on the floor J
63. Sex while no one else knows you are doing it
64. Trying the 69 position J
65. Sex with a condom J - Never with Sir (He is allergic to condoms and it does not have a happy ending. )
66. Sex without a condom J
67. Oral sex with mints
68. Sex in the back of a movie theater
69. Sex with someone you're angry at J - Angry sex can be a lot of fun!
70. Masturbating during sex J
71. Having sexy nicknames with your partner J
72. Using a dildo and your man -- at the same time J
73. Feeding someone sexually
74. Sex in a chair J
75. Sex with constant eye contact J
And it keeps going!  
  1. Have a male, female, male (MFM, MMF) threesome J
  2. Have a female, male, female (FMF, FFM) threesome
  3. Have sex with 4 or more people
  4. Have sex with a person of the same gender
  5. Have sex with another person, while your partner watches
  6. Watch your partner have sex with another person
  7. Have sex with your partner, while someone else watches
  8. Have anal sex J
  9. Have very rough sex J
  10. Have very gentle sex J
  11. Have sex without foreplay J
  12. Have sex standing up J
  13. Have sex kneeling J
  14. Have sex facing away from your partner J
  15. Have sex facing sideways J
  16. Have sex with most of your clothes on J
  17. Have sex with one article of clothing on J
  18. Have sex without kissing J
  19. Have extremely quiet sex J
  20. Have extremely loud sex J
  21. Have sex with a stranger
  22. Have sex without orgasm J
  23. Get your hair pulled during sex J
  24. Have sex in an awkward/advanced position J
  25. Change positions multiple times during sex J
Places to Have Sex
  1. Have sex and videotape or webcam it J
  2. Masturbate and videotape or webcam it J
  3. Have an orgasm in front of people without them knowing
  4. Have sex in public J
  5. Have sex at a movie theater
  6. Have sex in a car J
  7. Have sex at a drive-thru
  8. Have sex in a bathroom at a night club J
  9. Have sex on a balcony or porch J
  10. Have sex on an airplane
  11. Have sex on public transit, including buses and taxi cabs
  12. Have sex in the shower J
  13. Have sex on the kitchen counter/table J
  14. Have sex at work J
  15. Have sex in the woods J
  16. Have sex at a concert
  17. Have sex for an audience
  18. Have sex in the snow – Umm No. Does not even sound fun!
  19. Have sex on a beach
  20. Have sex in the bed of a pick up truck J
  21. Have sex in an elevator J
  22. Have cybersex J
  23. Have sex in a church
  24. Have sex on a building’s roof
  25. Have sex in your parent’s house J
  26. Sex in a graveyard

Equipment to Use
  1. Find your favorite vibrator J And I agree with Brat - Hitachi wand
  2. Discover a brand new dildo that you love J
  3. Get some Ben Wa Balls and use them J
  4. Get a Kegel Exerciser and use it
  5. Use a Strap-On
  6. Use Anal Beads J
  7. Buy some lingerie J
  8. Wear a cock ring ... n/a
  9. Wear some lace, leather or latex J
  10. Use a Butt Plug J
  11. Wear wrist and/or ankle cuffs J
  12. Get a blindfold on J
  13. Wear a chastity device
  14. Get a corset
  15. Wear nipple clamps J
  16. Purchase a mask or hood  J
  17. Use play piercing needles – I don’t see this happening – Sir does not like needles.
  18. Use a flogger, whip or cane J
  19. Buy bondage tape or medical tape J
  20. Get a sexy pair of shoes or boots J
  21. Use household items as kinky toys J
  22. Wear spreader bars J I LOVE the spreader bar!
  23. Use furniture specifically designed for sex J
  24. Use an unconventional sex toy, such as an ice dildo J
  25. Use a fucking machine – Someday.
Learn Something New
  1. Become familiar with your genitals J
  2. Go to the strippers J - I love to go to strip clubs with Sir.
  3. Go to the strippers on amateur night and perform
  4. Watch porn with your partner J
  5. Learn how to belly dance 
  6. Take a pole dancing class
  7. Attend a munch J
  8. Attend a play party
  9. Attend a sex-related workshop
  10. Attend a sex-related class
  11. Attend a sex-related conference, such as The Taboo Naughty but Nice Show
  12. Read more erotic stories J
  13. Read more sex-related blogs J
  14. Get an informative sex-related book J
  15. Blog/write about your own sexuality J
  16. Learn about the Kama Sutra J
  17. Get erotic photographs taken of yourself
  18. Show your partner an erotic dance, or have them do one for you
  19. Learn how to have great oral sex J
  20. Learn how to give an erotic massage
  21. Learn how to squirt
  22. Subscribe to an erotic magazine J
  23. Trim or shave your pubic hair J
  24. Discover the art of rope bondage
  25. Role Play J
Kinky Fucky Time
  1. Have your genitals worshipped n/a
  2. Have your genitals tortured
  3. Play with a violet wand or TENS unit
  4. Wear a gag J
  5. Be put in a cage or confined – I get my first cage when Sir comes home!
  6. Be humiliated or humiliate someone else
  7. Have your breasts whipped
  8. Experience sensory deprivation J
  9. Have consensual non-consensual sex (rape play) 
  10. Have marks left over the next day J
 I had a lot of fun going through these and I see a lot of things we need to try!


  1. Yay! Loved your list! I so agree - there is a lot missing from it! Someone left another checklist in my post, I'll be checking it out here in a bit.. may have to do a round 2,haha! :)

    Allergic to condoms - they suck anyway. ;)

    Hitachi wand - Gods.. yes! Isn't that thing amazing? lol

    Cage - Oo, what an awesome thing to look fwd to when your Sir returns! :)

    Sex in the snow - Right?! Brr! x_x

    Squirting - have you or your Sir ever tried to accomplish this? One of the ask brat posts I need to do is on this topic, I should get that done soon! :)


    1. I can not wait to add more to this list! I think I may set up a bucket list page on the blog just so I can add to it!

      I am very excited about the cage and He has promised that I can make it comfortable and pretty. :)

      And Squirting just sounds bad. lol We have never tried this but I know He has mentioned it several time in the past. I can not wait to read your post on it. :)