We have been doing this thing for years and know very few people in real life that share our lifestyle or views. We have the most amazing best friends who live across the country that we would never dream of telling about our lifestyle. They are very vanilla.
Recently during our daily text conversations she has brought up little things like me getting Daddy's plate or me asking Him if I could go somewhere. It had me starting to question things. Then recently she dropped a Huge confession. She has asked her husband to consider a Dom/sub lifestyle. I almost died. She went on to tell me how they have been playing at it in the bedroom and how she really thinks it is what she wants all the time. Then she straight out asked me about our life.
She is the one woman in my life that never judges me. She is closer to me than anyone in my family. I love her and can not imagine loosing my best friend. And she asked me about our lifestyle. I couldn't lie to her. Not her.
So I told her bits and pieces. I told her we had been doing this for years and that it is the best thing that ever happened to our marriage. I offered to answer any questions she may have but that she needed to really think about things before she asked. Somethings you just can never unhear.
She hasn't asked for a lot of personal details but it has been really nice to be able to talk to her about this. Her husband isn't sure this is what he wants so she is waiting for him to take the next step. Personally I think it would do them a lot of good. I have thought many times that he just needed to put a stop to some of her bad behaviors.
I don't know where their relationship is going but I hope they are able to find what makes them happy. And I am very thankful to be able to talk to her a little bit about this side of my life.
It is nice to have someone close to you that you can be more open with, i dont have anyone like that, its a reason why i enjoy blogging..for the interaction.
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I blog for the same reason. It keeps me from feeling so alone. I am very happy to be able to talk to her but I am still very guarded. I don't want to tell her too much. :/
DeleteWhat a great feeling it must have been to actually be able to talk to such a close friend about your life! I am sure you will be able to impart plenty of knowledge and advice for her along the way and for that, she will extremely fortunate not having to feel alone.
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I hope that is the way it goes. I am still nervous about sharing too much.
DeleteWhat an amazing and terrific moment that must have been (also surreal I am sure!). I'm sure she is even more terrified than you were when she brought it up!! Awesome for you both to have each other!
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It is great. I still find it awkward when the topic comes up but I am very thankful to be able to talk to her.
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